Okay, so youre a guy and you want casual sex. pretty much every guy ever. You could of course pay, i see nothing wrong with that but its a bit loserish isnt it? Getting a one night stand is easy, even if youre a less attractive guy. Its a numbers game, and its about confidence. Make eye contact with a girl and give a little smile, she smiles back, then you appraoch said girl (she should be a girl on her own) and act like you own the place, like shes lucky to be speaking to you. Women dont care too much about looks. Ask if the seat is taken, if not sit down and tell her youd like to buy her a drink, dont ask her, tell her. Compliment her hair, say she has lovely shoes, but also challenge hair, say her top doesnt quite suit her or something, nothing offensive, just show her you arent an arse licker. and if she rejects you its no biggie. Be interesting, ask her questions, ask interested, be nice, be friedly, flirt a lot, dont give the game away, dont make it sound like shes holding all the cards (because she is, shes the one who determines if you get laid or not). Make her laugh, grls love a funny guy, and make sure the converstaion keeps going. you should be doing about 30% of the talking. Talk about anything, but not boring stuff, not yourslef endlessly and not stuff shed rather not talk about like work (shes on a night out for fun). No pick up lines, unless youre saying them as a joke. After a while, ask her to dance, dont be shy you want to show her how fun you are, make sure shes a litte buzzed, tipsy but not drunk, because thats immoral. Remember shes come here for fun, maybe sex, b ut not to be taken advantage of. After youve danced, fall back into a seat, laugh if you want and then move in for a kiss. Tell her shes beautiful, then kiss her passionatley, really make out with her, hand on thigh, tongues everything. If she doesnt back away, youre in. Pull away, look her in the eye and smile. Down your drink, take her by the hand and stand up. Say, wanna head back to my place? I have something I wanna show you, or its getting late, im gonna head home. Shell ask you to stay or to go with you. The show you something is a good excuse. bring up something interesting at your place she would want to see early in the conversation, if she likes jazz, tell her you have some vintage jazz records she should hear. Anyway, yove got her in her car, youre driving back to your place, you get there take her coat and either start kissing her and tear off each others clothes in fits of passion, or it her down, put on some cool music (not romantic music, so cliched), get her a night cap, get close to her on the sofa then kiss and tear each others clothes off.
Alternatley, if you want to go back to her place, say, its getting late, can I walk you home? Then, if she doesnt invite you in then make an excuse to get into her place, something cheesy like can i look at that picture a little clearer etc and then bobs your uncle-sex
if all those games, and innuendos seem a little difficult, then you could just say, i find you very attractive, and i want to have sleep with you, not straight away but afer youve danced, so she knows for sure shes getting screwed when shes going home with you.
After. If yore at her place, you can leave when you want and never see her again if you want, if you really like her or get attactched easily you can stick around, see how she feels about meeting up again, seeing where it goes. If you do get attatched easily one night stands may not be for you, my guy friend had one to lose his virginity and he was heartbroken when he found she had left the next morning while he slept.
If youre at youre place, getting her out can be harder, dont be rude, make her a cup of tea, let her get dressed and showered and if youre feeling very generous, or want to maybe make it something more then make her breakfast.
either way, you got laid
virgins, if you want to do this
a-careful not to get attatched
b-youll be rubbish so make sure you dont know her
You are really interesting. I've gone out with (slept with) a lot of women but I've never heard advice as good as yours for meeting new women. LOL
ReplyDeleteNow you've put me into the mood. I'll be back! Thanks.